Cure for Irritability

A Lamplighter Moment from Mark Hamby

“Truly, truly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit.” – John 12:24

How do you respond when you’re around irritable people?
I don’t know about you, but they just sap me of energy and often can ruin at least part of the day. Having walked with Christ for now over 32 years, I think I’m beginning to understand something. These people are often placed in my path by divine design. My response and reaction to their miserable attitude is a reflection of my inner life – my true character. What I despise in others is often what I possess myself.

Granville Walker once said, “Love is the only cure for irritability; for irritability is only another manifestation of self-centeredness. And love that takes a man outside himself and centers the focus of his attention on the well-being of others is its only cure.”

One of my mentors, Francois Fenelon of the 17th century, wrote in his book Let Go:

“The Great Physician who sees in you what you cannot see, knows exactly where to place the knife; He cuts swift and deep into your innermost being exposing you for who you really are; but pain is only felt where there is life and where there is life is just the place where death is needed most. Except a grain of wheat fall into the ground and die it abides alone but if it dies it brings forth much fruit.”

The next time you’re around a miserable person, follow the path that the Apostle Paul outlined for us in Romans 12:

“Bless them that persecute you; bless and curse not.”

“Be not overcome with evil but overcome evil with good.”

Mark’s favorite book of the day!

Let Go
Written in the 17th century, Let Go is an excellent devotional to encourage and challenge you in your daily walk.